ment of the skirt that their upper legs will not be seen.
Norms for behavior may not allow male or female
workers to talk to the opposite gender. Females may
not be allowed to be in the company of males who are
not a relative; in some instances, a male aid worker
may put a local female at risk by speaking with her or
being in her company. Age can also be a difficulty with
regard to the youth of a country adapting to foreign
languages more quickly than adults and change the
dynamics of a family or clan if the younger children or
adolescents are acting as interpreters.
Body language can be a powerful force for good or
ill. In many circumstances, there are subtleties that
must be briefed to those going into an area. It is espe-
cially important to be aware of norms about physical
touching, and in many cultures there a certain gestures
that are best avoided. Other normative communication
issues might concern gaze behavior. In many western
cultures, looking another person in the eyes is often
considered a sign of sincerity; in many other settings it
may be considered rude or aggressive. Also, the social
expectations of gaze behavior may be different de-
pending on the gender of the speakers. Similarly, ask-
ing about another's spouse or family may be viewed as
friendly or intrusive. It is worth noting that many cul-
tures also have strong customs, traditions, and social
rules governing the processes of gift giving; once
again, a little cultural homework can go a long way.
This is especially so if the host country is also accom-
modating refugees or internally displaced persons,
where multiple standards may apply.
9. Emotional Self Care
This skill set has been variously referred to as stress
management, resiliency, personal wellness, mental
health, emotional well-being, psychological hardiness,
and other terms. Research confirms that humanitarian
workers, especially those responding to large scale
disasters, have high rates of subsequent psychological
distress. These frequently include a range of mood dis-
orders, anxiety disorders, and in some instances spir-
itual or philosophical problems, sometimes involving
loss of hope or purpose [1,13,14].
Although the field work of human security workers
may not routinely engage the magnitude and com-
plexity of career disaster responders, the cumulative ef-
fects of their work can still be emotionally challenging.
Whatever the specific mission, it is clear that evidence
from a number of studies reveals the most common
source of psychological distress is the persistent ex-
posure to the suffering or deprivation of others (An-
tares Foundation, 2012; Brunette, 2011). An important
but less striking source of strain may include separation
from family and friends, physically demanding work,
different language and working through translators,
unusual foods, crowding and lack of privacy, different
social customs (especially concerning gender roles),
harsh climate, or a lack of accustomed comforts. Over
time the otherwise fairly ordinary inconveniences can
produce an emotionally corrosive effect sufficient to
compromise general wellness and productivity.
Based on a review of the literature, Blanchetiere
[14] proposed that causes of stress may be thought
of under four general headings: 1) situational factors,
including personal security, health risks, and demands
of the population; 2) job related factors, comprising
living conditions, cultural change; workload, colleague
relations, and job security; 3) organizational climate,
involving program roles and expectations, manage-
ment style and worker support; 4) personal risk fac-
tors, incorporating poor self-care, psychological vul-
nerabilities, unrealistic expectations and motivation,
and lack of experience. The sources of stress, there-
fore, are complex, interrelated, persistent, and idio-
syncratic. The key to management lies in having in
place an individualized self-care program focused on
health maintenance and increased comfort. The plan
embodies the worker's aggregate knowledge, skills,
experience, beliefs, behaviors, plans, and attitudes that
contribute to the maintenance of well-being. Effective
plans begin in the pre-deployment phase, during which
the worker reflects on the personal values, goals and
expectations they attach to their efforts. These insights
can help to identify the substance of their motivation
and facilitate the earnest assessment of their particular
strengths and limitations that shape specific self-care
plans. Below are some self-care ideas that have proved
useful for many.
• Monitor your mood, and establish mutual support
relationships; share your thoughts and feelings with
trusted coworkers at appropriate times.
• Make a point of planning an exercise schedule
and stick to it. Because the operational tempo may
be high, it is important to block out specific time to
ensure you maximize the advantages of a regular
physical care regimen.
• Real time electronic communication (social media,
FaceTime, Skype, etc.) can facilitate a sense of con-
nectedness with home.
• Keep a log (diary) of thoughts, feelings and ac-
tivities; this often helps in processing your activities
and may later provide an instructive source of re-
flection on your experiences.
• Sharing humor can provide welcome relief from
the stress, but it is important to keep things positive.
If the tone turns negative or angry, it can com-
promise trust and erode the collaborative spirit.
• Personalize your living quarters with photos, sig-
nificant keepsakes, and other reminders of home; it
helps maintain a sense of continuity and attachment
• When possible, seek recreation away from the
work area.
• Even if you will not be on site for an extended
period, it is generally a good idea to unpack your
bags to lend an element of order and predictability
to your personal environment.
• Be careful about the use of alcohol; the pressures
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